Posted by: Advocate | December 7, 2011

What is Most Important?

Planning a funeral can seem overwhelming–all the details to take care of when what you may want most is to be left alone, or stay in bed and grieve. No one should feel the need to take responsibility for every detail, every part of the funeral plan.

  • Let yourself focus on just one thing at a time.
  • Let your family and friends help. Break up the tasks that need to be done to plan the funeral and assign them. Friends can help select funeral flowers, a brother or sister can be in charge of the eulogy, another family member the funeral readings…
  • Let the funeral director take care of as much as possible. The funeral director handles the majority of funeral arrangements, processing the death certificate and permits, transporting the deceased, and coordinating arrangements for the funeral service and cemetery burial. A funeral directory advises and guides on other funeral issues including the casket, flowers, music, and readings.

Breaking tasks up into manageable pieces and having everyone do their part will help a family plan a funeral without being overwhelmed. If you need help dealing with your loss, check our resources for help.

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